I have many friends who are not Christians. I’ve been fortunate enough to know these friends who are loyal, dependable, selfless, and caring. I could call them if I needed anything and they would do whatever they could to help. We may not share the same worldview, but we share many of the same personal values. I see this in how they interact with their children, their spouse, conduct business, and navigate relationships. They are good neighbors and good parents. I can honestly say that I’ve seen my non-believing friends handle some situations with more grace and mercy than I’ve possessed in similar situations. So, what’s the difference then, between a Christian and a non-Christian if it’s not morality? I mean, aren’t those who trust in Jesus Christ supposed to be “better” than those who do not believe in Jesus?
I feel like my non-Christian friends believe that Christians THINK they hold some sort of morally superior position over those who don’t believe, as if what makes us different is our good moral behavior. This is probably because I’ve actually seen Christians who treat other Christians as if they are morally superior to them. So, if this behavior exists between brothers and sisters in Christ, then how much more so must it exist between them and non-Christians? I believe this attitude is prevalent in the church because much of the preaching is so focused on behavior modification rather than the gospel, but that’s another subject for another time.
What I want my non-believing friends to know, and my brothers and sisters in Christ, who may be confused to know, is that we Christians, can lay no claims to moral superiority. To be even more direct, we (Christians) are no better than our atheist and agnostic friends. ROMANS 3:10 says, None is righteous, no, not one. Even the most morally upright person, whether they are a Christian or not, fall short of God’s perfect standard. Knowing and believing this, the Christian should readily abandon any thought or attitude of outranking someone else in morality, and embrace the reality that they are a wretched sinner who is desperately dependent upon the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ, the only one who has any claim to moral superiority.
In addition to Christians embracing the reality that we are wretched sinners, we should regularly and readily confess our sin, shortcomings, and failures. When we gather together collectively as the church for worship on Sundays, we have a time of collective / individual confession. We confess that we have fallen short of God’s perfect standard, and we confess our need for God’s grace, mercy, and forgiveness. We don’t do this because we believe we are better than everyone else, but because we know we are not, and we depend on the perfect life and sacrificial death of Jesus Christ. The idea that human beings are imperfect and just need a little improvement is not a Christian idea. Instead, scripture tells us that all humans are in rebellion to the One True God who created them and the only way to be restored is by surrender - trusting in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, not in our own ability to be “good enough”.
Horatius Bonar said, “Upon a Life I have not lived, Upon a death I did not die, Another’s Life, Another’s Death, I stake my whole eternity.” This reminds us that the gospel we proclaim and plead for others to believe is not a call to adhere to some subjective moral standard of improvement. It is a call to repent; to abandon any thought of being able to meet the objective moral standard of God. It is a call to believe all that was necessary for you to be forgiven and declared righteous has been accomplished in and through Jesus Christ. Put your trust in Him and rest in what he has done.